When To Say I Love You In A Relationship

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When To Say I Love You

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When should you say “I love you” to a guy?

The first time you tell a man you love him will be one of the most beautiful moments you and he experience together… assuming the feelings are mutual! The risk is – what if he doesn’t feel the same way? What should have been the most beautiful moment between the two of you could quickly become the most awkward – it could even begin a chain of events that lead to your breakup!!! That’s why it’s important to think about when is the right time to say “I love you” for the first time to a man in a relationship.

When you say “I love you” is ultimantly something you to have to decide – but that means saying it so it can be as REAL and AUTHENTIC as possible.

For example, the timing of when to say “I love you” is important – In the video I explain this, and how to pick your moment so the two of your can be vulnerable together and share this moment in the way you really want.

The meaning behind “I love you” – when you do decide to say it – is even more important! You want to have a serious think about what love means to you before you say it, rather than putting it out there with every guy you feel strongly for. This is LOVE! – Hardly something you want to be saying to a lot of people – Another reason why knowing when to say “I love you” is so important.

In this video, I explain 5 important things you MUST consider if you’re currently wondering whether it’s time to finally bare your soul say “I love you”

If you want everything to go well when you decide to finally say “I love you” to him, then this video is a MUST WATCH for you.

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  1. Jennifer augustus 26, 2016 at 6:02 am - Reply

    thank you so much Mark,, nice video

  2. fannity x augustus 30, 2016 at 2:19 am - Reply

    The first time he said I love you….. I replied with: thank you. I didn't know what to do.

  3. Michael Henn januari 9, 2017 at 7:35 am - Reply

    Is it ok to tell someone you love them when you aren't in a relationship yet?
    Known the girl 3 years, dating for several months…

    going to tell her I love her when I ask her to be my girlfriend later this month… I know she "likes me", but she emphasizes baby steps to me…

    She talks about a future with me!
    She said when she has a job (just got one) she can be in a relationship… she also said she doesn't need to wait until she's 24 like she told me before…maybe these are hints?
    Is it ok to tell someone you love them when you aren't in a relationship yet? I'm sooooooo nervous

  4. peacefullwaters januari 27, 2017 at 5:41 pm - Reply

    Really like all the advice. It is so sensible! Thank you so much!!

  5. Danielle februari 11, 2017 at 1:16 am - Reply

    or leave it on his voicemail ha

  6. Danielle februari 12, 2017 at 6:23 am - Reply

    Lily Rose samesies! haha

  7. Danielle februari 12, 2017 at 10:42 pm - Reply

    Lily Rose
    Yes I did mean it, and I didn't regret it because he thought I didn't care. It went over pretty well, apparently 🙂

  8. sinamen516 maart 24, 2017 at 4:35 am - Reply

    Great advice! I told my guy I love him drunk, then quickly snapped out of it lol. He was surprisingly cool, didn't bother him, maybe cause he was trying to get some. We still talk everyday n see each other. Hopefully next it'll be sober and mutual.

  9. BelievinSP april 15, 2017 at 7:25 pm - Reply

    2:20 been there, done that and he's exactly right

  10. MinnieMoon april 25, 2017 at 2:21 am - Reply

    Are u single? I'm guessing not 😉

  11. ShootingStars april 29, 2017 at 8:25 pm - Reply

    I think that if that person is truly the person for you then it will absolutely not matter at all when you tell them you love them. There is a guy that I currently love but we are forbidden from being with one another until the end of term at UNI. I have only been able to get to know him by talking to him here and there for an hour or so at a time. He is not allowed to confirm feelings for me or not due to policy. I have been talking with him at least 2 hours a week for the past 5 months. I love him. I decided to tell him in different terms how I feel as he was already aware of my interest in him. I was brave and wrote him a love letter and I told him that not only was there a high level of concupiscence but that he also oddly feels a lot like home. I have never even held his hand or hugged him. After last class, we talked for over three hours showing that the note had not in anyway shape or form scared him away from me. I know that I love him and all we have done is talk. If he was paralyzed from the neck down in a car crash tomorrow I'd still love him and desire to be with him the rest of our lives. I think there is a serious problem when people are stressing over telling another human being they love them. There is an even more serious problem when that scares that person away. Love isn't pressure to marry, love isn't pressure to create a family, love isn't sex and love certainly isn't a lot of things. Loving someone means you care about them and you cannot imagine the world without them. Tomorrow is never promised if you love someone tell them how you feel. If that person runs then yeah your heart will feel a bit broken but at least you will not have wasted your time with someone who cares so little about you that a three letter word made them run away scared. I lost my 3 year old in a car crash 16 months ago. Watching another human being die, especially one you love to absolute infinity…. it changes your perspective on love time and everything else. If a guy is a decent human being who genuinely cares about you then he's not going to be a dick because you said "I love you" before he was ready to say it.

  12. ukielena mei 22, 2017 at 5:19 pm - Reply

    I wasn't in love with a guy, but I did love him. So when it didn't work out, it did take months to get over him.

  13. susie mei 28, 2017 at 1:31 pm - Reply

    I love that you gave the suggestion of what to say if the guy says I love you and you are not ready! I've been seeing someone for about 6 weeks now and he said last week "I don't know if it's possible to fall in love within 5 weeks of knowing someone, but if it is then I'm falling in love". Now he says this while we are kissing and he has spoken previously about spending his life with me and how lucky he is etc. All is great, he is the polar opposite of my exams has many qualities I've been looking for and YES I can name things that bother me with him which I thought was so funny to mention. I have a wall up and really want to make sure this is right. How does one know is this "love" or being "in love"?

  14. Edna Serrano juni 23, 2017 at 4:37 am - Reply

    If I love the guy it also means I already accepted his negatives and some flaws. whether to have sex with him or not I keep it with myself. I get myself ready if things won't work out well and I never regret feeling the love. I'm not giving the love right away and too easy, it must be the guys effort how to get it, proving that he is worthy of me as a reward.

  15. Anastasia juli 2, 2017 at 6:51 pm - Reply

    This may sound opposite to all you believe Mark, but some women 'senseI' when they love ..they also sense that a man wants to hear an I Love You… Its a knowing. It is also a human condition to LOVE… Many , many men I never thought to say I say I Love You in a romantic way….Your heart normally tells you… if your rejected , no matter, the 'loving' is still there.

  16. Saima Jan juli 11, 2017 at 4:03 pm - Reply

    Hi Mark…?
    You're very handsome and your advices help a lot.
    I wanna share something with you. I'm dating a guy since one year.Everything was going on smoothly between us. But I did some mistakes while we're in the relationship. I used to talk to my ex boyfriend on a daily basis that hurt him very deeply. I didn't pay attention to him and used to give little time to him.
    But after 10 months I realized I was doing wrong with him and stopped talking to my ex boyfriend. In the meanwhile I came to know that he used to chat with a friend of mine without my knowledge from last 2 months and had even met her once. During the meeting, my boyfriend had mistakenly called her by my name, and suddenly had realized that he's doing wrong and broke with her.
    He has hurt me so deeply that I am not able to forget his wrong doing, though he's apologized 1000 times for that. I am not able to come out of this.
    Mark! Please help me out. What should I do now?

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  18. nagham lvly juli 16, 2017 at 9:06 am - Reply

    to say I love you is very easy but with the action is difficult, the word it self is very expensive but most of the pple don't understand .if you give someone a diamond easily he will never evaluate the value , so make what ever you do value and you will get the result, never give any one an expensive thing until he works hard for that thing let him wait for a long time let him feel not to hear so he will never forget the day you said it .hhhhhhh that is my crzy tips .so mark how do see my ideas, some men always said men don't like waiting something for a long time but I normally enjoy it to make him feel the value ,:)

  19. nagham lvly juli 16, 2017 at 9:11 am - Reply

    Mark,i always give a thump your videos before, I even listen,hhhhhhhhh

  20. Charleen Hopkins juli 21, 2017 at 6:25 am - Reply

    thanks , question …. can you tell me why this is too much,
    there was a guy on the chats called the captain and i asked if he looked good in uniform .

  21. Melanie Gonzalez juli 26, 2017 at 4:39 am - Reply

    I love you Mark finally a real man telling us we are worth more then Sex Ty

  22. Joy Kroagbe augustus 6, 2017 at 1:20 am - Reply

    Good job mark

  23. Kaye Kaye augustus 7, 2017 at 3:01 pm - Reply

    Great video! I just made one called "bad times to say I love you". They go hand in hand =)

  24. Joanna Hatcher augustus 8, 2017 at 2:31 am - Reply

    I've been with my boyfriend for almost two year now and he still hasn't said it. I told him but that was a year and a half ago. It still bothers me, quite honestly. If I could go back I would have just kept that to myself.

  25. Dish Laydie augustus 11, 2017 at 12:30 pm - Reply

    Oh! Well said! Great job, Mark.

  26. Doreen Craig augustus 13, 2017 at 10:10 am - Reply

    Wow ! Thanks

  27. Rana Torunları sadrazam augustus 15, 2017 at 2:17 pm - Reply

    What do you think about young men going after older women for a relation !!! I face too much offers from young men don't know why ! I like it but I hate it too
    They say I look young but I am not young
    Yes I do give 10 years younger
    But I truly find this heartbreaking dating younger men
    I feel they need there youth to live with a partner from same age or younger
    I am 42 yet still gets younger men 10-15 years younger
    Why ? Is that normal

  28. Jovana Jankovic augustus 21, 2017 at 4:26 pm - Reply

    I was in relationship with a guy, and he told me 'I love you' after two weeks, and continuous to tell me it every day. I was suspicious about it, but after, I accepted. We broke up few months later and I was right. I found out that this is common to all guys who are very proiscuous, playable and who very often 'falls in love' with women. That words didn' t have a lot of meaning.

  29. Candace Potato augustus 25, 2017 at 7:37 am - Reply

    Him: they might not say it back wait 3 Months
    Me: (asked out crush)
    Crush: LOVE YOU

  30. ivykay 18 augustus 31, 2017 at 7:29 pm - Reply

    Me and my bf broke up for 3 months now. Then he goes back to his ex wife and got a new gf. Then he realized he got his wife pregnant and still keeps her new gf. He kept on posting in his fb how much he loves his gf (with a husband newly seperated) so much but he still seeing his wife. Is it true love? Does he really love his gf?

  31. ana de jesus september 9, 2017 at 5:26 am - Reply

    hey Mark ,I have a question there is this guy that really likes me and he has told a lot of people but, those people he did tell don't like me and constantly keep on telling him negative stuff about me. So what should I do because I really like him and I don't want him to pull away from me. So the question is should I tell him that its better to keep our relationship hidden for some time? And if yes, how?

  32. Vongai Mukome september 16, 2017 at 8:46 pm - Reply

    What if you've loved someone for some years but they don't love you like that, how do you get over them

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